Saturday, August 09, 2014

This is a True Choice

2 Corinthians 2:1 KJV
But I determined this with myself, that I would not come again to you in heaviness.

How is it that a person can make the choice not to be heavy and sorrowful in spirit?
Paul made that choice
Many times a sorrowful or heavy spirit can be reversed simply by choosing not to be heavy. Listening to music, getting off of the couch. Doing something, anything that requires energy and activity is often all it takes to overcome heaviness.

Paul dealt with the issue head on
The heaviness in this case would have been the result of anxiety over how his previous, harsh letter had been received. Instead of stewing over it, he did something about it. He enquired as to their state of attitude. Meeting up with that someone, speaking to them, attempting to make things correct will more often than not lift the spirits.

Paul expressed love
Whether this is an outward expression as in Paul's case, or a spiritual/mental exercise whereby we focus on reasons to love these believers, simply feeling love is a means of lifting heavy hearts.

Paul emphasized forgiveness
Bitterness of the heart will destroy the person who holds it. No good thing can come from keeping anger, hostility and bitterness bottled up. The way to release them is not by "venting" but by forgiving. Forgiveness is the choosing to hold no ill will against another-even if it is deserved. Forgiveness stems from two realizations:
  • That we too surely have needed to be forgiven of others
  • That God has graciously forgiven us through the sacrifice of Jesus Christ
Paul planned a visit to Corinth. He had determined that he would arrive with a free and light heart. May we choose to be light hearted believers.

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